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Perfectionists, and perfectionists-in-recovery like me, constantly notice things that aren\u2019t perfect (at least by our definition). The struggle we have is what to about it. My first impulse when I see something that needs improvement, is to try to fix it.<\/a> Sometimes that is appropriate\u2014like if a picture is hanging crooked or there are dishes in the sink. But lots of times, like with the imperfections I might see in my spouse, it is not my job<\/a> to fix things. (In fact, in marriage constructive criticism is an oxymoron.)<\/p>\n If I can\u2019t fix something, it is tempting to feel sorry for myself. This might start as an attitude of discontentment, like grumbling to myself. But a little annoyance can quickly morph into indignation. If left unchecked, it can expand to a a full fledged pity party<\/a>, one I feel obliged to invite others to attend. And the way I do that is by complaining.<\/p>\n Why do we complain?<\/p>\n The Bible says a lot about complaining but probably the most succinct words are in\u00a0Philippians 2:14: \u201cDo all things without grumbling or disputing.\u201d<\/p>\n All things. Without grumbling. Or fussing.<\/p>\n Have you allowed complaining to creep into your thoughts and conversations? \u00a0Maybe today is a good day to start a zero tolerance policy of complaining.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Complaint and Contentment Series – Part 2: From Bitter to Better<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n
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