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<\/a><\/p>\nPutting Things in Perspective<\/b><\/h1>\nBanishing Anxiety Part 5<\/i><\/h2>\n
by Lydia Floren<\/p>\n
This series on anxiety has been fun. And, honestly, I could probably write on this topic for a whole year. Not because of my tremendous knowledge about anxiety, but because of my vast experience with it! Here\u2019s an example: For the last four years or so, I\u2019ve been writing a book on learning to live a God-guided life. Four years is a long time, and I am ready to be done with it. But, I\u2019ve realized that one of my biggest obstacles in finishing my book, is me–more specifically, my fear. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nMy fears about writing<\/b><\/h3>\n
What am I afraid of? Well, I\u2019m afraid of lots of things. Believe it or not, I am afraid of finishing the book. <\/b>My perfectionist self plagues me with the \u201cwhat if\u2019s.” \u00a0What if I finish it, and no one wants to publish it? What if it is published, but no one wants to read it?\u00a0 <\/span>And what if they read it, but they find it boring or irrelevant? Or lacking in important ways? \u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\nOddly enough, I\u2019m also afraid of not <\/i>finishing the book.<\/b>\u00a0 <\/span>What if I take so long to write this, that I die before I finish it?\u00a0 <\/span>(Plenty of people younger than me headline the obituaries every day.) What if someone needed to read it, but never had the opportunity, because my fears and perfectionism and busyness got in the way of completing my book?\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\nFrozen<\/b><\/h3>\n
Sigh. If I am afraid of finishing the book, and also afraid of not finishing it, I am well and truly stuck. Frozen in the twilight zone of fear that we perfectionists (even those in recovery like me), often find ourselves.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nGetting unstuck<\/b><\/h3>\n
What gets me unstuck? Reminding myself to put things in perspective. This little tome I am working on is not the only book I am writing – and certainly not My Most Important Book. The Most Important Book I am writing is my life. Each day in my life-book is a page. And every word on the page is powerful. Every kindness. Every smile. Every encouragement. Every hug. Every choice to forgive. Every moment of listening. Every confidence kept. Every murmur of thanksgiving.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nAll these words, these pages, make more of a difference than any volume we might publish – or anything we \u201caccomplish\u201d for that matter. Our Most Important Boo – our life-book – is already touching people in ways we don\u2019t even realize. And it won\u2019t be until after the book is finished and we go to heaven, that we will get to see just how much it has mattered to the people we love, as well as to those we randomly encounter.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nRelax<\/b><\/h3>\n
When I put things in perspective – when I remind myself of what is most important – I can relax about my smaller project. I quit getting my panties in a wad about the little imperfections. I just do my best, and trust that God will use it however He wants to. And I know that, even if it never sees the light of day, the process of writing it has already blessed me tremendously.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nEvery day, I\u2019m churning out the words of my Most Important Book. The plot is complicated. The main character manages to get in lots of messes. But she never loses hope, because the Hero is there every step of the way. And though I don\u2019t yet know the details, I can tell you it\u2019s going to have a great ending. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nAre you feeling anxious?<\/b><\/h3>\n
Are you feeling anxious?\u00a0 <\/span>Step back and get a little perspective. Remind yourself that your Most Important Book, your Masterpiece, is coming along nicely.\u00a0 <\/span>And, it is already having an impact.\u00a0 <\/span>Sure, the syntax isn\u2019t perfect, and yeah, there are a few misspelled words. But the plot is captivating, and the ending is going to be awesome.<\/p>\nPSSST. \u00a0FYI,\u00a0 <\/span>From what I understand, there\u2019s a sequel in the works, and it\u2019s going to be an even better story.<\/p>\n![\"sleeping](\"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image2-300x200.jpeg\")
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