{"id":1889,"date":"2018-11-08T20:36:22","date_gmt":"2018-11-09T02:36:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/?p=1889"},"modified":"2019-05-17T15:11:00","modified_gmt":"2019-05-17T20:11:00","slug":"another-way-banishing-anxiety-part-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/2018\/11\/08\/another-way-banishing-anxiety-part-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Another Way &#8212; Banishing Anxiety Part 4"},"content":{"rendered":"<pre><a href=\"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/image1.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1876\" src=\"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/image1.jpeg\" alt=\"Banishing Anxiety over clouds\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/image1.jpeg 640w, https:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/image1-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/image1-624x416.jpeg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><b>Another Way<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/pre>\n<p>Another Way\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<i>Banishing Anxiety Part 4<\/i><\/p>\n<p>by Lydia Floren<\/p>\n<p>Anxiety is a difficult emotion to understand, much less overcome. \u00a0In this blog series, we have identified some great questions we can ask ourselves to help dispel our anxiety:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/2018\/10\/19\/whats-matter-banishing-anxiety-part-1\/\">What is the matter?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/2018\/10\/24\/afraid-banishing-anxiety-part-2\/\">What am I afraid of?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/2018\/10\/31\/fight-flight-banishing-anxiety-part-3\/\">How am I reacting? Am I fighting or fleeing?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Today, we are going to look at another option we can choose, in response to anxiety, besides fighting or fleeing. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Another Way<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>As believers, when we are faced with anxiety or fear, we have <b>a third, much more powerful choice, that shatters this fear-flight-fight cycle.<\/b> Instead of fighting or fleeing, we can make the choice to <b>focus, and then to stand. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<h3><b>Focus on Truth<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>One of the most effective ways of banishing anxiety is to focus on truth. Filling our minds with truth displaces our fear. Here are some truths I tell myself to remember, when I am feeling anxious: <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4>Remember:<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li>Who you are\u2014God\u2019s precious child, one who He dearly loves and cherishes.<\/li>\n<li>Who God is\u2014present, intelligent, powerful, wise, communicative, protective.<\/li>\n<li>What is really going on in the world. We are imperfect people, living in an imperfect world. We are called to help others know God\u2019s love, by loving them in our own unique (and often imperfect) way.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Stand Firm<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In Ephesians 6, after Paul said to put on the full armor of God, he didn\u2019t say, \u201cOk now go out and kill some people.\u201d<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Paul said <b>stand your ground. STAND FIRM.<\/b> <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i>&#8220;Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to <\/i><b><i>stand your ground<\/i><\/b><i>, and after you have done everything, to <\/i><b><i>stand<\/i><\/b><i>.\u00a0 <\/i><b><i>Stand firm then<\/i><\/b><i>, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place.&#8221;<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/i><i>Ephesians 6:13-14<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The reason we are able to stand&#8211;that we aren\u2019t compelled to fight or to flee&#8211;is because God is with us, and within us, keeping us safe.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Nothing and no one can touch or change the identity, value, belonging, calling He has given us. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In Isaiah 41:10, God reminds us:<\/p>\n<p><i>&#8220;Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>In other words,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i>Hey, don\u2019t be scared. I am right here. Don\u2019t go looking around for a place to hide, or for some means of protecting yourself. You don\u2019t have to fight or run.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Just focus on the truth, and stand firm. I am here with you. I will keep you safe. And, I will give you the strength and confidence you need to weather the storm.<\/i><\/p>\n<h5><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>So, next time you are anxious, ask yourself these questions:<\/h5>\n<ol>\n<li>What\u2019s the matter?<\/li>\n<li>What am I afraid of?<\/li>\n<li>How am I reacting?<\/li>\n<li>What truth can I stand on?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Instead of fighting or fleeing, remember that there is another, and often better way to respond to anxiety. Focus on the truth, and stand firm. You are safe. You are not alone. And you are not on your own.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image2-3.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1890\" src=\"http:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image2-3.jpeg\" alt=\"&quot;Focus&quot; over a stained glass window\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image2-3.jpeg 640w, https:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image2-3-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/belovedlove.org\/reflections\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/image2-3-624x416.jpeg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Another Way\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Another Way\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Banishing Anxiety Part 4 by Lydia Floren Anxiety is a difficult emotion to understand, much less overcome. \u00a0In this blog series, we have identified some great questions we can ask ourselves to help dispel our anxiety: What is the matter? 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